Jim and I have lived a long time.  We are both observers of people and things.  We have observed that some people spend more time at church than they do with their families and friends.  We have observed that people seem to think that being in a beautiful church building on a regular basis will get them to "Heaven" faster than being with family or close friends.  We have observed that building stone churches is more important to some people than building relationships and setting examples QUIETLY for other people.